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Lara discusses gift etiquette do’s and dont’s for physicians and their spouses with Karen Hickman, a social etiquette expert and nationally recognized speaker and writer who was married to a physician for many years.
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Karen Hickman is passionate about raising the civility quotient in America today. She is an expert in the most current and universally accepted etiquette and protocol affecting today’s business community and contemporary society. As owner and director of Professional Courtesy, LLC Ms. Hickman addresses the challenges of the business person in a global economy.
With training and certification from The Protocol School of Washington© – a major resource for the Military Attaché and other government agencies – Ms. Hickman represents the highest degree of professionalism and quality programming. Since 1999, Ms. Hickman has developed and offered seminars for her clients that include Contemporary Business Etiquette, Dining Skills for Business and Pleasure, International Etiquette and Protocol, Communication Skills, Networking Skills and more. In addition, she has used her nursing background to design seminars specifically for the Medical/Dental Office Practices and Hospitals.
Recognized nationally for her speaking, training and writing for business publications, she has also contributed dining etiquette to the recent publication, Dishing Up Smiles, for the Alliance of the American Dental Association. She writes a weekly Q&A etiquette column for the Ft. Wayne News Sentinel called Contemporary Courtesies.
Opening:00:00 This is the Married to Doctors podcast, episode number 54.
“The underlying philosophy about all of the rules of propriety and civility and etiquette is consideration for other people.”
Welcome to the Married to Doctors podcast. Because we know that being married to a doctor isn’t always as glamorous as it sounds, our podcast helps successful homes be happier. We’re here to build community, hear your stories, and explore solutions with the experts. Here’s your host, Lara McElderry.
Lara:00:37 Hey everyone. I’m so happy to be with you today. I’m recording this, it’s November first, so last night we survived Halloween and that’s exactly what it felt like. It got cold and rainy and the kids were insistent on trick or treating. We got wet. We also, you know, had different costumes for school and then something they wanted to be at home and it just felt like a lot of hullabaloo, to be honest. The house was kind of a disaster with costumes and half-eaten pizza and cupcakes and oh my goodness.
But it is so fun to see families celebrating the holidays together and I love that because we know that I’m all about marriage and family and trying to strengthen that and so I hope that you have some traditions or that you can start some that your family can do. Also, want to give a shout out to anyone who went trick or treating with their kids alone. Been there, done that. And I know that that can be tricky indeed.
Speaking of the holidays, they are coming up. We’re getting ready for them and I wanted to help, you know, get you prepared a little bit and I thought what better way than to talk about some of the questions we have as physician families when it comes to etiquette with gift giving as the physician and in the workplace. And I know I had a lot of these questions and I think many of you probably have to. So I hope that you’ll enjoy this episode.
My guest is Karen Hickman. She has been trained as an etiquette specialist and I have her complete bio in the show notes. If you want to know more about her. What I love is that she was married to a physician for many years. She’s widowed now, but he was a family medicine doctor and so she shares, you know, some of her experience from that as well as this etiquette background and I think it just came together perfectly. On my blog I have the ultimate physician gift guide, so look for that because I’ve linked there a lot of this information as well as a lot of fun gift ideas that you can look up there too. So with all that, enjoy the episode.
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Lara:04:36 Karen Hickman. I’m so pleased you’re here with us today. Welcome to the show.
Karen: 04:40 Thank you, Laura. I’m delighted to be here.
Lara:04:44 So you have a company called Professional Courtesy and today we’re going to talk about manners and we’re going to ask a lot of good questions, I hope that will be useful to the listeners, especially pertaining to holiday etiquette. But before we jump into everything, can you just tell us a little bit about yourself and how you came to be a an etiquette specialist, I guess?
Karen:05:07 Yes, be happy to. Well, I am a nurse by education and my late husband was a physician and family practice and we were married 31 years and I’d always had an interest in etiquette and protocol and some circumstances moved me to go to Washington DC and be trained and certified by the Protocol School of Washington. They are one of the leading schools in the country who do training for people in the etiquette and the protocol industry. So I teach and the corporate world. I teach at the university level. I do children occasionally and I also work with a lot of physician practices and hospitals and healthcare people around the country, actually, I travel all over.
So with my nursing background, I created specific training material for the healthcare arena along with the other material that I teach. Just general corporate etiquette and international etiquette too, I do briefings for companies who are going to be doing work with internationals. So that’s how I really got to do this. And after my husband died, I really sort of jumped in with both feet and have been doing it now for almost 20 years and it’s been fun and exciting and it keeps me off the streets, so to speak. And I’ve had a column in the newspaper and written for national publications and traveled all over and met lots of interesting people. But most of all, I believe very sincerely in what I teach. I think it’s important. It’s not rocket science, but I think that it’s very important and it’s common sense, but as they say, common sense isn’t always very common. So it’s been fun.
Lara: 07:06 Yeah. And it may be common sense, but honestly, I think a lot of us struggle with some of these, I mean quote unquote basic things because we’re not really sure what proper etiquette is.
Lara:07:19 And I wanted to really focus in on the holidays because they’re coming up and I think a lot of us physician families have questions on that. But man, I kinda want to talk to you about, you know, setting a table now.
Karen:07:31 Well maybe we can do that if we have time where we can do that at another time, Lara.
Lara:07:37 Yeah that would be fun. You know, now I’m thinking of other things we could ask you, but really when it comes to the holidays and gift-giving, I guess one question I had, you know, we have a custom of gift giving and what is proper like as far as the hierarchy? So if you’re the attending physician, is the gift etiquette different than if you’re a physician in training or a nurse or a secretarial staff? Like what is, does everyone give everyone a gift and can you help us out with this?
Karen:08:10 Well, I don’t think that everyone gives everyone a gift necessarily and I think if the physicians are in training, uh, the budget certainly comes into play with that and I think all gift giving should be done within the comfort level of the physicians or the physician families budgets and that should be the thing that directs them. I think also that referring physicians often get gifts, like my husband as a family practice physician who referred to specialists, for instance, was gifted regularly at the holiday time, mostly with gifts thanking him for referring his business to the specialist.
So that’s something I think that specialist, uh, should consider within their groups if they have key people or key family practice groups that refer to them, they might want to consider sending a gift to thank that physician for, for their business throughout the year. And that can be anything from wine or steaks or smoked salmon. I think food gifts are often very nice and appealing, but the, you could do things very specific if you know the specific taste of the physicians like books they like to read or other things in that vein that are not food related. So those are two areas and I think that when physicians, specialists, in particular, gets a patient from a new physician, I think aside from gift giving, I think it’s nice to acknowledge that they received a patient from that a referring physician and to send a thank you note of some kind for their business.
Lara:10:06 Yeah, that’s interesting. What about, you mentioned those in training, you know the budget’s tight, but is there something they should maybe do for an attending? One of my thoughts was maybe it’s just a holiday card with a thank you note written in it. What do you think about that?
Karen:10:21 I think that’s fine because handwritten notes, number one, contrary to what a lot of people think, are never out of style. And I think that form of a sincere message, handwritten goes a long way and means a lot. So I think that is perfectly okay.
Lara:10:40 Okay. And what about our nursing staff, maybe assistant scrub techs, secretaries on the floor. How do we show them appreciation without running out of money?
Karen:10:52 Breaking the bank? Yes. Well, I think you, you take into consideration the number of people and give a gift maybe for the whole department instead of two individual nurses and that could be things like people in the hospital always loved to eat. Cookies or nuts are…My husband used to give of all things grapefruit and he would take huge boxes of grapefruit along with me helping him piled up on gurneys and we’d hit every nurse’s station in the hospital and there would probably be 30 pounds of grapefruit, I think I, I don’t remember how big they were, but he sort of became famous for the grapefruit that he gave out, but everybody on the floor usually was able to get a very good juicy Texas grapefruit. So that was sort of his legacy gift giving in every department. So it wasn’t necessarily individuals, but everybody got to join in and usually, they share all of that on the floor.
Lara:12:01 And I love that too because I, I can feel like they might be endeared to him because he made it a tradition. Like he became known as the grapefruit doctor. And I like that idea of choosing a tradition maybe to give to the staff.
Karen:12:18 Yes, and I can think back to my days nursing days in the hospital and some of the very nice things that we got on the floors from the various physician groups or individual physicians like beautiful cans of nuts and cookies and chocolate and things like that. I think were always appreciated and just the fact that the physicians are saying thank you and that’s what it is. It’s a thank you to the staff for their hard work means a lot.
Lara:12:50 Okay, so if you’re given a gift but you don’t have one for that person, how do you handle that uncomfortable situation?
Karen:12:59 You just say thank you very much. How thoughtful of you, because that happens to all of us. You weren’t expecting a gift and instead of maybe you don’t have the opportunity to rush out and reciprocate, I think you just say thank you very graciously and send a handwritten thank you note again for the gift and then determine next year if you want to do that or if you think you might be caught off guard, have some gifts available that you could share with somebody.
Lara:13:34 Ah, backup gifts.
Karen:13:38 Yes, backup gifts.
Lara:13:39 A few extra things just in case.
Karen:13:42 Yes, like little hostess gift type items. Something that you could share or something that you make food wise. It’s a specialty of yours. I think is always a nice thing.
Lara:13:54 Okay. I like that idea a lot. All right. Let’s talk a little bit about work party etiquette. So one thing that’s often common, is gift exchanges, you know, maybe they’re done with a group of residents, a group of staff, whoever, if you participate in one of these gift exchanges, do you still need to do something above and beyond for everyone in your group or wasn’t that the point of the gift exchange?
Karen:14:19 I don’t think you have to do something above and beyond and if you want to do something above and beyond, pull yourself out of the group gift because I think that’s okay. Sometimes people start the group gifts and sort of catch people off guard by that. So if you’ve already planned on a private gift, just say, you know, I’m going to do my own gift and not participate in the group gift. And I think that the expectation of the group gift, should always take into consideration the cost of the group gift, so nobody is put on the spot and nobody is, you know, really stressed financially because of these group gifts.
Lara:15:02 Yeah. And I’m making the assumption, tell me if I’m right or wrong here, but if they put out a money limit on the gift, which they often do, let’s say it’s $30, I’m guessing you should get something that’s about $30, not much under $30, but also not over $30. Is that correct?
Karen:15:20 Yes. Yes. You mean if they’re going to participate in a group gift or if they’re going to do a separate gift.
Lara:15:26 No, If they’re going to be in the group gift, then they need to stick to the group gift rules. It’s always awkward and sit with $100 gift that we put a limit of 30 bucks on it, right?
Karen:15:37 Yes. No, stick to the limit because then it becomes very out of balance and people feel awkward with that. I think sometimes, for instance, for wedding showers and baby showers and things like that, if somebody wants to give an enormously expensive gift, giving it at the shower isn’t the place to give it, give that privately. So the other gift givers at those parties or showers are not made to feel cheap if you will. I think that can be just as rude to overdo it and try to outshine everybody else as it is to underdo it. So stay within those limits.
Lara:16:19 That’s great advice. So in the hospital setting, we work with a lot of people from different, you know, religious or even nonreligious backgrounds. I myself, I celebrate Christmas so I would tend to say Merry Christmas to people, but others may not celebrate Christmas, so how do we navigate this in terms of wishing someone a happy holiday or in our gift giving.
Karen:16:44 I would say happy holidays. I send Christmas cards, but I also send happy holiday cards for those people. That number one, I’m not sure whether they participate in Christmas the same way my family does, but also business wise is a little more appropriate to give a happy holiday card when you know that some of those people are of other faiths that don’t celebrate Christmas like we do, so when in doubt do send a happy holiday card and there’s been a lot of complaining about, well it’s Christmas and we say Merry Christmas these days and I appreciate that, but to know that somebody else doesn’t celebrate Christmas like the Christian people do, I think that can be almost not insulting, but it can be a little insensitive to not send them a holiday card. You wouldn’t necessarily have to get Hanukkah specific if they celebrate Hanukkah or some of the other holidays, but if you know that, go ahead and send a Hanukkah card, but I’m not offended if I don’t get a Christmas card from somebody who doesn’t celebrate Christmas.
Lara:18:04 Hmm. That’s interesting. I, I kinda think I would feel way more awkward sending a Hanukkah card because I don’t celebrate Hanukkah.
Karen:18:12 Right, right. I don’t think that…I would probably feel the same way. I think Lara about that, I would just send a happy holiday and that takes in everything.
Lara:18:22 Yeah, and on the flip side, if someone wishes you a Merry Christmas and you’re like, for lack of a better word, just I dunno, a nonbeliever, indifferent, I feel like a lot of people my age and younger are pretty indifferent towards religion. What is the proper way to receive a greeting, you know, if you’re on the receiving end of a merry Christmas, you know what’s appropriate?
Karen:18:45 Happy holidays back? Or thank you. Hope you have good holidays. I think that’s just fine and I don’t think people should be tentative about sending, for instance, a holiday card or Christmas card with your family picture on it and things like that.
Lara:19:04 Okay. So if you’re. What what I’m getting from this conversation is if you’re aware of it, then you know you can choose this and a happy holiday card, but if you’re sending out Christmas cards to everyone else and you want to send them one, don’t be too trepidatious, just send it.
Karen:19:19 Right. I think it’s time that a lot of us stop being so sensitive about everything. It’s the fact that somebody remembered you with a card.
Lara:19:31 I heard a definition of etiquette once that I really liked, which was “etiquette is about helping others feel comfortable,” and so if you’re helping someone else feel comfortable, then you’re doing it right, so if someone wishes you a Merry Christmas, you don’t celebrate Merry Christmas, you still want them to feel comfortable. You’re supposed to think about their feelings, not yours.
Karen:19:52 That’s right. Yep. The underlying philosophy about all of the rules of propriety and civility and etiquette is consideration for other people.
Lara:20:05 What other types of etiquette advice outside of the holidays do you think physician and physician families should be aware of? If you could narrow it down to just a couple of things. I know this is kind of your area of expertise.
Karen:20:18 Well you talked about the Christmas party, for instance, or the Office Holiday Party, I think that it’s important for the physicians and their spouses if they are included, participate in those parties. Occasionally I hear about the office Christmas party and none of the doctors showed up. Well, I don’t think that really creates a real cohesive sense with the staff and especially if the doctors are hosting it, I think they should show up for at least part of the time and participate.
Lara:20:54 Yeah, that’s, that’s good advice. I have been at a party where I feel like sometimes the physicians are asked to fit the bill and so they feel like they kind of did their job and they may not stay and eat.
Karen:21:05 Right. Yes, and again, I think it says to the staff, well, we don’t think you’re important enough for us to socialize with…I think it can set a very negative tone. One thing that I hear from medical staff when I’m doing training in the offices in the hospitals is some of the doctors don’t even know our names and I think that’s something that physicians should be attentive to. The people who are working with them and for them regularly, the physician should make it a point to know their names and maybe even a little bit about them.
So if you’ve got staff members that you might run into in the grocery store and you wouldn’t know their name, I don’t think that speaks well of the physician and him showing or her showing a sense of appreciation about the staff members. So I think that’s very important. And, and to say thank you to them occasionally. Thank you for the good work today or thank you for helping out in this tough situation. Uh, I think just the verbal thank you goes a long way along with acknowledging that the staff works hard for them and they do. They really set the tone often for the feel of the practice.
Lara:22:26 Yeah, I think that’s all great advice. And I know you were married to a physician for how many years did you say?
Karen:22:33 Thirty one. Thirty one years.
Lara:22:35 So since this is a marriage podcast, do you have any words of wisdom for medical marriages?
Karen:22:44 I think one of the biggest things that worked for us was a tremendous mutual respect and I as the spouse also recognized that I shared my husband with a lot of people and I always viewed that as something to be proud of because I thought he was a wonderful physician and I still hear things from people–I do training at a hospital where my husband was on staff and then in the hospital I worked in many years ago. So I think that’s important.
And then I as a spouse, because my husband, he traded call with the group, but he owned his own practice. I also participated in hosting the staff, taking them out to dinner and things like that because his staff worked for him for a very long time also. So they felt more like family to us, but they were smaller in size. Not quite like some of the big groups now have hundreds of employees and that’s a little harder. So I think mutual respect and try to understand, um, and work on times and places you can go to have a date and go out to lunch and find some quiet time just for yourselves I think also is very important.
Lara:24:06 No, I think that’s, that’s all really great advice. I appreciate it. If there was one more piece of etiquette, one more thing you didn’t say you wanted to say. Here’s your chance. Do you have any other things you want to tell us.
Karen:24:19 Well, I, I know I’ve talked about the thank you note, but, but the thank you notes are very important and I just heard from a woman yesterday that told me that when her husband died, the physician that cared for him wrote her a beautiful note, a sympathy note, and she said I will treasure that always. I think those notes and acknowledging things like that are very important to patients and their families. So a handwritten note, it’s never too late to send one and I think it really distinguishes you from the masses these days because everybody’s sending things electronically.
Lara:25:03 Yeah. I love that. If my audience wants to learn more about medical etiquette, where can they find out about your business?
Karen:25:10 My website is www.professionalcourtesyllc.com.
Lara:25:19 Awesome. Alright. I’ll have a link to that in our show notes so people can find you easily and get more answers.
Karen: 25:25 Yes. Thank you for inviting me. I’ve enjoyed it very much.
Lara:25:29 Yeah. This has been so fun. Thanks Karen.
Karen:25:31 Thank you.
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Straight Dope Message Board > Main > In My Humble Opinion (IMHO) > Doctors : What would you appreciate?
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05-28-2003, 12:47 AM
I want to thank my doctor. I have profusely thanked him, verbally, but would like to do more.
I initially had the idea of sending a basket full of goodies (chocolate, etc) to his office. Then I thought about doing that once a year, as an ongoing appreciation of what he has done for me. My husband thinks this sounds 'stalkerish', so I'm rethinking that one. I know little about him, so wouldn't have a clue whether a fruit basket, chocolates, flowers, golf balls, etc would be most appreciated.
So I turn to you, doctors of the SD. How would you like to be thanked, if you'd gone above and beyond for a patient ? What have you received in the past, and how did it make you feel ? What would be the best way to show my appreciation and extreme gratefulness ?
05-28-2003, 01:23 AM
How about giving your doctor a gift basket from somewhere like David Jones...they have wine packs, coffee/tea and chocolate baskets and gourmet food hampers.
Even though it's not expected, I really appreciate it when someone is thoughtful and buys a gift to say thank you. The few times I've received a thank you gift, I've been given chocolates, bottles of red wine, a basket with tea and jams and a hamper with Australian olive oils and sauces.
05-28-2003, 03:22 AM
I used to be a secretary for several different doctors, and I know other secretaries, and it's not at all unusual for them to receive gifts from patients. Most of them had patients who would send them something every Christmas, it's definitely not creepy. Stuff like chocolates, flowers, wine, fruit baskets, lots of baked goods. The doctor a friend of mine works for has a patient who sends her (as well as the doctor) very expensive gifts every Christmas. Last year she received a very beautiful bracelet. I think that's a little weird, though.
A gift certificate and thank you card may be the way to go if you don't know anything about the doctor's likes and dislikes. If it's a nonprofit facility, you could consider a donation too.
05-28-2003, 06:09 AM
If you want to send something every year, it's not creepy. My parents are doctors and they do get things at Christmas from patients they treated a long time ago. As long as you keep it simple - the ideas in the OP are fine (apart from the golf balls!) - anything will be appreciated.
One point - I don't know if it's the case with all doctors, but when my parents are given something like a fruit basket or a big box of chocolates, they tend to share them out with all the other staff, such as the nurses and the technicians, who rarely if ever receive gifts of their own.
Whatever you do, you're doing a good thing.
05-28-2003, 06:21 AM
I saw this Web site in "Discover" magazine -- www.iawareables.com. They sell various textiles printed with blown-up pictures of disease-carrying organisms. And what doctor could resist a tie with Ebola on it? Or boxer shorts with gonorrhea on them?
05-28-2003, 11:37 AM
Can you do counted cross-stitch? If you can, why not make him something cool to put in his office?
I say this b/c gifts that are made always mean more. Plus this is a doctor we're talking about here ... and yes, I know that not ALL doctors are rich, but chances are this guy isn't lacking anything. Plus most of them are extremely busy and probably wouldn't have the chance to enjoy any cool book you gave them. (From my experiences in working with both, doctors and lawyers tend to not read for pleasure anyway because they have to read SO MUCH in their work.)
At any rate, give him something that will LAST. Something he can look at from time to time and go, "Oh, Goo gave me that, what a great patient." Flowers and chocolate are great but they're quickly gone.
This is not stalkerish at all. I think it's a great idea. I'd do the same if I had a doctor that I had to go see a lot.
05-28-2003, 11:40 AM
One of my mother's patients gave her a whole salmon and 50 frozen crab claws.
You might want to try something else.
My dad would like it if you would help pay off Brother, MD's student loans...
Seriously, sending gifts is not stalkerish at all, unless the gifts themselves are freaky. I think it speaks volumes about you and your doctor. Since you don't know much about your doc, gift baskets are always nice and something that the office will likely share in. You could call up his secretary and ask for suggestions. If he has a favorite cause, you could donate money in his name, or renew a magazine subscription. Generalising here, but since you doc is a dude, I wouldn't send flowers.
Re: SnoopyFan's comment -- my brother's a doc and I'm a lawyer (yes, geek family alert) and we both read like crazy for fun. As you can probably guess, we have poor eyesight.
05-28-2003, 06:03 PM
Speaking on behalf of my doctor father:
He was really upset last night, and just lately in general, because hardly anyone appreciates the ER docs. Sure, some people say nice stuff, but mostly, he gets way more complaints. People try to sue over everything they can. Basically what you want to do here is make the doctor feel appreciated. First of all, if he has a boss, and the boss is within hearing distance, definately tell the doctor how wonderful he is. In fact, do so even if the boss isn't around. Also, make sure that with whatever you send the doctor, write a nice, handwritten note just telling him how appreciative you are of what he did. It's the little things that make them smile and feel good.
05-28-2003, 08:35 PM
The ER docs certainly get a few complainers, but I've been lucky enough to receive more praise than brickbats. I really appreciate the handwritten notes and cards. Don't spend a lot of money on the gift, don't give cheap white wine and if you give food, give something the doctor can share with others since chocolates make us fat.
Qadgop the Mercotan
05-28-2003, 09:38 PM
Originally posted by Dr_Paprika
give something the doctor can share with others since chocolates make us fat.
Chocolate doesn't make me fat! I'm already fat!
Cards are nice. Candy, which we can share with our staff, is too. No flowers, please. Too many people with allergies around. Keep it simple, and inexpensive.
Just plain old thanks works wonders, too. Especially if you also tell our corporate/civil masters how great we are!
05-28-2003, 10:06 PM
Things my parents got from patients:
05-28-2003, 10:11 PM
Bugger, mouse slipped, sorry. Various things my parents got from patients as thank yous over the past few years in a rural practice:
- Baked Goods
- Bottle of wine
- Bloody good bottle of wiskey
- Smoked trout
- Big bag of (normal) mushrooms
- A carved wooden bowl
Trust me, like everone else, doctors (and their families!) like freebies.
05-28-2003, 10:19 PM
My dad is a family practitioner and one of the gifts I'll always remember getting from a patient was a little handmade wooden bench (the patient was a carpenter) with three teddy bears sitting on it. The patient's wife knitted little Chicago Bears sweater and hats for the bears.
They're still sitting by our fireplace over a decade later. :)
05-28-2003, 10:29 PM
Originally posted by Snooooopy
I saw this Web site in "Discover" magazine -- www.iawareables.com. They sell various textiles printed with blown-up pictures of disease-carrying organisms. And what doctor could resist a tie with Ebola on it? Or boxer shorts with gonorrhea on them?
Infinitely preferably to the boxer shorts with gonorrhea IN them.
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